Cosplay is a celebration of creativity, fandom, and self-expression. While cosplayers enjoy sharing their work, it’s essential to remember that there is always a real person beneath the costume. Respect and good manners ensure that everyone feels safe and valued.
‘Cosplay Is Not Consent’ is a common tagline heard across the cosplay community. The following policy is the Guild of Nerds’ ‘Cosplay Is Not Consent Policy’ and it outlines appropriate behaviour for interacting with cosplayers, focusing on photography, physical contact and general conduct.
Photography
Most cosplayers are happy to pose for photos, however it’s important to remember some key rules and respect a cosplayer’s right to say no. Cosplayers may decline photos for a wide range of reasons, and do not owe you an explanation. If a cosplayer declines a photo request, respect their answer.
Asking for Permission
- Always ask for permission before taking a photo. This ensures the cosplayer can pose and be prepared.
- If a cosplayer declines, respect their decision and thank them for their time.
Timing and Context
- Don’t ask to take photos when cosplayers are eating, taking a break, in the bathroom, or clearly rushing somewhere. Wait for a better opportunity to ensure a great shot.
- If someone else is photographing a cosplayer, wait your turn to avoid interrupting their work, otherwise known as ‘sniping’.
Respectful Framing
- Do not take photos focused on specific body parts (e.g., chest, legs, or feet) without explicit permission from the cosplayer. This is never acceptable with underage cosplayers, regardless of consent.
- Avoid requesting poses, ships, or expressions that are inappropriate, especially from underage cosplayers.
Posing and Adjustments
- If you need a particular pose or an element of the cosplay needs adjustment, communicate it verbally or demonstrate it yourself. Never touch the cosplayer or their costume without asking for permission.
Touching
Touching a cosplayer’s costume, props or body without explicit permission is not acceptable behaviour. Don’t assume that it’s alright just because someone else has done so, as consent is given on an individual basis.
Always Ask First
- Never assume a cosplayer is comfortable being touched. Even casual gestures like putting an arm around their shoulders require explicit permission.
- Respect their answer. If they say no, don’t touch.
Costumes and Props
- Do not grab or handle costumes or props without permission. These items are often delicate and represent significant effort and expense.
General Behaviour
Cosplay is for everyone and everyone should feel safe doing it. Be mindful of how your general behaviour and words can affect those around you.
Respect the Individual
- Cosplayers are not their characters. Avoid pressuring or bullying them into acting like their character for your entertainment. Negative comments about the character or franchise are also not respectful.
- Body type, disability, age, race, or gender are irrelevant to cosplay and should not be commented on.
Role-Playing
- If you wish to role-play with another cosplayer (e.g., a shared ship or rivalry), always ask if they are comfortable with it first.
Giving Feedback
- Be positive and supportive. Compliment good craftsmanship, but never criticise or compare cosplayers. Remember that many are new to cosplay and learning as they go.
- Avoid backhanded compliments or comments that compare cosplayers (e.g., “You’re better than X” or “You should have won”).
Personal Space
- Keep interactions brief and allow cosplayers to move on if they wish.
- Do not follow specific cosplayers around the event. This behaviour is inappropriate and may result in security intervention.
Why This Policy Matters
Cosplayers are here to have fun at conventions too, and the principles of the ‘Cosplay Is Not Consent Policy’ is to help everyone have fun and feel respected.
The Guild of Nerds strives to create an environment where cosplayers feel respected, safe, and celebrated. Following these guidelines ensures that conventions remain fun and inclusive for everyone.
Remember: Treat others as you’d like to be treated: with respect, kindness, and consideration.